I hate character bashing, especially when it comes to Xander. He wouldn't be happy about what he thinks is going on, but when it comes down to it, he's her friend and she's under so much stress right now that he can not like it but still be there for Buffy. I'm glad you appreciated this, and I thank you for specifically commenting on it. Thanks so much for reading -- I'm glad you've not given up on this story despite the long time between updates.